Stalking No More = General Change

Stalking is a really bad idea for any people. Personally, I feel like stalking is a form of desperation that needs to be satisfied. I know, stalking can be seen either positive or negative ways, depends on your creativity of mind to use it for the better purpose or just to fulfill the desires of 'indulging a bad stuff'. Let's get real, we tend to choose the darker side's line.

I would to share one of the things that made me change my views and what I think it is the best for me to keep up my faith towards what I believe. It is about stalking.

A few months ago, there was an unpleasant incident happened to me whereby I had decided to stalk one of my ex-schoolmates' Twitter/Facebook and blogs to find out what is new on their life. Honestly, I feel like it was against the rules to stalk someone where we could just directly ask them. I guess I was just too polite to ask them so they would not misunderstand my main intentions, as a person. I scrolled all the comments, tweets and I came across with this particular 'hurtful' comments about me. I am pretty sure they talked about me in their conversation since the words were obvious and out loud. I was so pissed off that I nearly kicked someone's else legs. They were so into the conversation, it made me feel like 'This is a high school-cheapskate-gossip mongers all over again'

Just a wise advice.

They basically judged you from your past and dragged the whole thing to the present. I mean, how annoyed is that? How is it works for these people?

People tends to change, like every 5 years. It is not like a chameleon magic or some shit. Change is something that I consider as unwelcome visitor because that shit happens constantly and nothing can prevent us from changing. Personally, I think time plays a great significant role on your life when it comes about change. People changes whether you like it or not. It ain't a time for other people to be prepared. 

I do not know how many times that I change, whether it is a spontaneous change or coercion kind of change. It is up to me to decide what I want to be as a person and an adult, so I think a similar force works within the whole ideology. It is so sad to me that people just assumed whatever you do right now and acted like you are the same, as always when they did not know a thing about you. 

So, that was a day whereby I decide to ditch the stalking habit for good and let it go forever. I even swear to myself for not letting myself to become one of these kind of people. Dignity is a mirror to your personality, minds and name ; it is up to you to polish it or tarnish it.

I will just keep my own faith